If you just found out you’re pregnant and it wasn’t planned, your mind is probably racing with questions, especially about how to tell the people closest to you. If you’re still living at home or at college, it’s important to tell your parents about the pregnancy. Figuring out how to tell them can be tricky, but we’re here to help!
At Crossroads Pregnancy Resource Center, we offer a calm and confidential space to process your thoughts about your pregnancy and explore your various options. Here’s how you can approach these critical conversations with confidence and care.
Confirm Your Pregnancy First
Before you talk with anyone, make sure you have accurate information. A home test is a good starting point, but confirming your results with medical-grade pregnancy testing and an ultrasound can help you move forward with greater confidence. You’ll learn how far along you are and whether the pregnancy is viable.
Crossroads Pregnancy Resource Center provides these services at no cost to qualifying individuals, giving you the information you need to take your next step.
Talk with Your Boyfriend
Talking with your partner is often the first conversation to have, and the outcome can set the tone for what comes next.
Choose a quiet moment to share the news and be honest about how you’re feeling, whether you’re leaning towards continuing the pregnancy or are thinking about an abortion. It’s okay to say you’re still processing everything. Give him time to do the same. You don’t need to have every answer right away; what matters most is openness and respect.
If the discussion becomes emotional, take a pause and return to it later. The goal is understanding, not a perfect conversation.
Talk with Your Family
Every family situation is different, so think about what will make the discussion as calm as possible. A private setting helps everyone focus. You might start by saying, “I have something important to share, and I’d like your support as I figure things out.”
Be ready for a range of reactions. Parents often need time to take in the news, just like you did. Stay patient, listen carefully, and remember that you’re sharing your truth one conversation at a time.
Find Support
Whether those first talks go smoothly or not, you don’t have to face this alone. Crossroads Pregnancy Resource Center is here to provide compassionate, confidential help. Our staff can listen, answer questions, and connect you with practical resources for pregnancy and beyond.
You don’t have to rush into decisions. Take one step and one conversation at a time by scheduling your appointment today.