If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, it’s normal to feel unsure about what to do next or who to talk to. You may be wondering if you’re legally required to tell your partner about your decision to have an abortion.
The short answer is: no, you are not.
While the decision is yours, it’s important to consider how it may impact your relationship and overall emotional well-being.
If you need a safe place to think and process before you talk to your partner or anyone else about your pregnancy, we’re here.
Am I Required to Tell My Partner?
Legally, you do not have to inform your partner if you’re planning to have an abortion. The decision to continue or end a pregnancy is yours. No one—not a partner, parent, or friend—can make that choice for you.
That said, relationships usually benefit from honest communication. If you feel safe and supported by your partner, opening up about your thoughts and concerns may help foster understanding and trust. It also allows him to share how he’s feeling and support you in the ways you need to be supported.
These conversations can be emotional, so take your time and be patient with yourself and your partner as you process the situation.
Your Health and Safety Come First
If you’re in a relationship where you feel unsafe, pressured, or afraid to speak up, you don’t have to go through this alone. Your safety matters. It’s okay to seek help from a trusted friend, counselor, or someone outside your situation.
At Crossroads, you’ll find a caring and confidential place to ask questions, talk openly, and receive support.
You Have Options. We’re Here to Help.
Whether you’re still processing the news of your pregnancy or trying to decide who to talk to next, Crossroads Women’s Center is here for you.
Schedule a no-cost appointment today and get the clarity you need to take your next step with confidence.
Crossroads Women’s Center does not perform or refer for abortions.